- you hear "I was going to call, but I had so much going on with the Holidays"
- you are asked "Is it okay if I combine your birthday present and your Christmas present"
- you are given many Christmas Decorations as Birthday presents (can you say clearance)
- you come to accept that you will not be having any "Birthday Celebrations" with your friends (because they are busy with the Holidays)
- your friends say, "In case I forget, Happy Birthday" (usually said a couple days before your birthday)
- you learn how much you appreciate those who do call... or send money
So if you are reading this thinking Jen's Having a pity party, you would be wrong. I have now had 27 birthdays to get used to this, and I have come to accept my circumstances. In fact that's why my friend and I have started the "Forgotten Birthdays" club (she will remain nameless, because she doesn't blog or read my blog). So on the 29th of this month my friend and I are going out to eat with our spouses to celebrate our Birthdays. It will be a joyous occasion filled with happiness, laughter and hopefully some birthday cake! (Which is one thing I didn't get this year).
Happy Holidays and Happy Birthday to all of you silent members of the Forgotten Birthdays Club.
ETA: This was not meant to give you a guilt trip, please no more comments apologizing I do realize many people get forgotten and I did get many phone calls from my friends. Don't take my post seriously.
8 comments:
I can't believe people forget your birthday! That's so sad. I wonder how many people called you for your birthday. Reguardless, Happy Birthday Jenn!!
You make me giggle Lizzy. Not to brag (of course I'm bragging) I did get several phonecalls from my friends. One friend even called me at 9:30 at night...
The blog wasn't a poor me sorta thing, it was meant to celebrate the other silent members of the "Forgotten Birthdays Club"
You mean it was your birthday!?!?!
j/k--I wished you one the day of. Cause I love you bunches and would never forget.
I am soooooooo sorry, I guess I am one of those friends.... What a bad friend I am...... I AM SOOOOOO Sorry, I will make it up to you somehow..... I love you and miss you so much!!!! AGAIN I AM SOOOOOOO SORRY!!!!
As always, Jen, you know I can appreciate your lament. Dec. 16th has always brought me plenty of Christmas cards with "Merry Christmas & Happy Birthday!" along with the present wrapped in Christmas paper. Even better, I've got my anniversary thrown in there as well (Don't you, too?). Gotta love that. I miss you, Jen. I hope you had a great birthday. Maybe one of these years I'll be there to help you celebrate
Thanks for writing this.
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